Believe…..

Sometimes there comes times when there are serious questions that we pop to ourselves like “what is happening” or “why certain things happen to me?”? Not that things are wrong, bad or devastating but i guess its always us as individuals that we think over too much when it a very very simple thing to either forget it and march ahead or solve it. I guess everyone goes through these every time.

I have always been a person who has tried to live life happy and in a small way as possible. “Life is huge”. That’s one of the sayings and i agree. It teaches you a lot of things and as well tells you that you should not be doing just for the sake of doing in your life. Do it for yourself and then it automatically finds the path to bring joy and happiness around!! Well, that’s what i think…

I have seen that whenever something happens say like a fight or serious discussions, confrontations…at the end of it you feel drained out mentally. I think over if its just me or is it a natural thing to happen. I know that these discussions should always end on a note where both of them stand by it and are happy to take it. But what if it doesn’t? What if one compromises just for the other person to be happy? Is that a good thing or a bad thing? It’s not a thought that comes just because this is what i have done everytime, but its a thought that comes because i know i have done it but it has not always resulted positively. It has always come back roaring at me negatively. Its a self doubting thing that one does into. But then having done it or having been in that situation is why i feel now that compromises to a certain extent is fine, as long as we are confident that it is going to help self and the other person too.

Always do something only if you are fully confident about something because we don’t tend to feel too bad or hurt, instead we learn if something goes wrong in those decisions and work towards it.BUT when we do something just because someone pushes us to, we feel real bad and go on to think that we should have gone with our heart and saying and not others. It’s again a very natural thing. So there is nothing wrong in that (i guess :)) It’s okay to listen, take suggestions and advises, but always go with what your heart says..because its always the heart that first gets hurt or happy!!

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